Lifestyle tips

I definitely relate to what you're describing. This fetish can sometimes feel like an obsession. Honestly the most effective thing to do is just masturbate, allow myself to have that release, and then go on with my day.

Haha ... that’s usually what I end up doing, but the urge comes back and I’ll be in an office soon. In the past I usually just stop gaining and end up losing the weight when the distraction becomes to much. I’m really hoping to keep the gains and get bigger.

By rewarding yourself with masturbation, you're actually conditioning youself to make the situation worse.

If you use your fetish as a tool to distract yourself from things you don't really want to think about, that's known as avoidance in psychobabble. It can csuse a lot of other problems, and can but isn't necessarily an aspect of addictive behavior.

Both of these situations ideally should be handled differently if they start to be a problem. Options might include setting rules or goals with meaningful rewards. Like no masturbating at work means extra goodie at McDonalds or whatever. Or finding better sexual outlets.

Of course, if it's not a problem, then no solution needed. Lol.

By rewarding yourself with masturbation, you're actually conditioning youself to make the situation worse.

If you use your fetish as a tool to distract yourself from things you don't really want to think about, that's known as avoidance in psychobabble. It can csuse a lot of other problems, and can be, but isn't necessarily an aspect of addictive behavior.

Both of these situations ideally should be handled differently if they start to be a problem. Options might include setting rules or goals with meaningful rewards. Like no masturbating at work means extra goodie at McDonalds or whatever. Or finding better sexual outlets.

Of course, if it's not a problem, then no solution needed. Lol.

--- addition--- I think I must have misread the original post, my bad. I feel pretty silly about that.

Cool, no worries I understood. Thanks for making that clear to avoid any possible misunderstanding.